I had some discouraging news Wednesday night. I’m losing my largest client and the major source of my income. Change like this is always startling yet it presents itself with some new and exciting opportunities.
I reached out to a couple of friends when I heard the news with a quick text. We had company over at the time so I couldn’t really make phone calls, but I needed to let them know what I was going through.
What I received from them yesterday was personal and amazing.
The first friend was at my home the next morning waiting for me to wake up. My day started with a reassuring hug. I didn’t have any words at the time, but she didn’t expect any from me; just a hug, a knowing smile and her presence before she headed out on her day.
The second friend showed up in the afternoon. He refused my invitation to sit on the couch and pulled up a chair directly in front of me. He sat in my space, giving me his complete attention and gaze. He encouraged me and laughed with me, reminding me how rich we are to have each other.
The third friend picked me up to take me to dinner. He came a little early wanting to make sure we had enough time and didn’t have to rush through the evening. We’ve been through most of our lives together and this is just another one of those little speed bumps that we help each other over. When the waitress came to take our drink order my friend declared that it was a pitcher of beer night. He kept our glasses full and the conversation flowing – the beer (a great Weizenbock), along with his presence was good medicine for my soul.
I reflect back now on my friends’ personalities and am so grateful for what they brought to me yesterday – physical touch, quality time, affirmation, gifts, and their presence. I am very grateful for all of the relationships in my life, especially the Peter, James and John who showed up yesterday.
Oh, and remember that little photography hobby I’ve been showcasing this last year? Well, I am going into business!
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you're going into business!!??? YES!!! I am absolutely certain that great things are going to happen for you in 2012!! Much Love Cap'n, Elyce
Good luck with the new business venture. I know how it can be to lose a major client. I'll pray for your successful transition.
Thanks for sharing.
you have great friends because you are one! much luck in your new endeavors! I know I always love your photos
Thanks for sharing! Precious friends…wow! I am sorry about your biggest client but am excited about your future. Your photography is inspiring. The photos truly are telling a story. I loved the line about not asking you about weddings. My husband and I had a photography business for 6 years and we said the same thing! Many blessings on your new business.
Woohoo! I'm so excited to hear about your business adventure . . . can't wait to see where it takes you!
Brother, I love your heart…always seeking to see things from Love's perspective…and also, your appreciation of, and never taking for granted, Her steady gaze on you. Ahhhhh,, every dead-end somehow leads toward a bridge into new territory….I look forward to seeing your new views!
If you are open to two businesses, I met someone who is roasting coffee over in Weiser who is looking to expand into the Treasure Valley. He mentioned that he could use a salesman. I could get you in touch…
Great blogpost!
It's not all about business.. It's about love, friendship and healthiness! 